there is a saying " expect the best, prepare for the worst ".
this quote sums up what life is all about and this quote enables us to ensure we do not get washed away in the surging waves of unpredictability and misfortune. well you see, without expectation there can be no disappointment. but the trade off is that there is no excitement and happiness. there can be no joy of success or celcbration of a good final outcome.
yet if we expect the best and prepare for the best then if and when what we expect does not pan out as we had seen it turn out, we are left hanging in the sky with nothing to hold onto and with nothing to fall back on. this would mean that the law of gravity would come into play and we go crashing down to earth again. that is why we prepare for the worst. while we may be disappointed that how life turned out was not according to our plan, yet we are left with enough options and paths to take so as to adapt and carry on with life. and trust me life never turns out the way we plan it to. if it does well thats good for you. i congratulate you and celebrate with you. but if it and it usually will not turn out the way you wanted and expected well its always good to have a plan B and a plan C and maybe even a plan D to catch you from falling.

unless of course you are a girl and you are falling into the arms of prince charming :D

thats all for today!